• Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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    22 days ago

    4chan level bigotry, shocking.

    Just editing this in to address the question, yes it is. That’s just being transphobic. If they say they’re trans they’re trans. You do not get to dictate what someone else’s gender is just because you disagree with their politics.

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      22 days ago

      If they say they’re trans they’re trans.

      Who is supposed to be trans, Hexbear?? Did I miss something?

      Oh, and I base my judgment on interaction with them, being despised by chapo was just anecdotal, I’m fine don’t worry.

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        22 days ago

        You said it’s 95% white dudes, and are doubling down in the face of evidence that it’s clearly not. That’s being incredibly dismissive of the trans people on there, and just makes it clear you want to be able to gatekeep other peoples genders whenever you have an axe to grind. For the sake of any trans people in your life I’d hope you do some introspection, but I’m not going to hold my breath.

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          21 days ago

          evidence that it’s clearly not

          I’m sorry what evidence lol?

          The hexbear community is build on the ashes of r/chapo, that’s a fact. R/chapo was a bunch a white dudes playing revolutionaries and pretending to defend minorities they had no clues about, that’s another fact.

          Now, if some of the chapo bros recently became trans, or if some trans people decided to join their community, I’m more then happy for them, I couldn’t care less. But I have to admit I’m pretty curious about how trans people can happily coexist with tankies who cheer for Putin (an anti-lgbtq+ dictator and murderer) and let Jeffrey Epstein’s closest friend get elected because they wanted to “own the libs”.

          But I you case, I see you clearly belong with them. You people are not lefty, you need to assume your love of authoritarians and accept that you have more in common with the far-right then any other political movement. You use the same tactics: bullying, victimization and usurpation.

          Also the trans person in my life has a message for you “Fuck off Diva, I don’t need your advice and stop pretending to represent my community you douche”. His words not mine, but I provided the translation.

          Finally, I have a good one for you. How does hexbear users please themselves? They jerk their superiority complex, three feet above their heads. See, in the end something good came out of this discussion.

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            20 days ago

            I’m sorry what evidence lol?

            I posted right at the start of our exchange. Hexbear is majority non-cis as of a poll they did months back- and it wasn’t the first one, I checked. They instructed cis people to fill it out too, and considering how active /c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns and the various matrix chats are, I have no reason to think it was somehow staged.

            Now, if some of the chapo bros recently became trans, or if some trans people decided to join their community, I’m more then happy for them, I couldn’t care less. But I have to admit I’m pretty curious about how trans people can happily coexist with tankies who cheer for Putin (an anti-lgbtq+ dictator and murderer) and let Jeffrey Epstein’s closest friend get elected because they wanted to “own the libs”.

            The democrats ate shit so hard they lost the popular vote by a bigger margin than all of the other votes combined, you clearly have a chip on your shoulder about them making fun of those french settlers. I still don’t think it’s a particularly good excuse for your behavior, you just seem like a creep who’s seriously projecting with all of those comments about ‘superiority complex’.

            Also the trans person in my life has a message for you “Fuck off Diva, I don’t need your advice and stop pretending to represent my community you douche”. His words not mine, but I provided the translation.

            I most certainly did not offer any advice to the trans people in your life. His comment is a reflection of your ability to twist the truth. Anyone can read my comment, it’s right here

            ‘For the sake of any trans people in your life I’d hope you do some introspection’

            You seem to need help with translation, here’s the subtext:

            If you think it’s okay as a cis man to be declaring who is and isn’t trans based on your petty podcast grievances and your (poor) ability to parse satire, I would hope you rethink your actions in the future so that you don’t do that in the outside world too.

            I didn’t give any advice to anyone, certainly not him. That was for you, and it was in earnest. You seem like an absolute creep and I hope you find a way to stop for everyone else’s sake.

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              Lol. The joke about jerking the superiority complex should have been directed to you. Stop playing victims, you sound like far right losers.

              That survey looks likes the biggest bs that ever come out of hexbear. I’m sure if you do one on ethnicity, half of them will tell you they’re natives, but none of them have ever met someone of the first nation. That’s what they do, they hide behind a keyboard, lie, cheat and appropriate other’s suffering while all being privilege ass. And you are definitly one of them. You call yourself the dirtbag left because you act like far-right troll. Everybody hates hexbear and .ml, not because whe are transphobe and libtards but because you are bullies. You suck, lie, play the victims and are enablers for fascism. Exactly like the far right.

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                11 days ago

                cis man declares himself arbiter of trans-ness based on his opinion of them.

                Cool. I am clearly just playing the victim and bullying you by pointing out the transphobic shit you’re doing.

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                  Let’s be reel you are the transphobic one. I’ve shown this to a few trans people and they all agree on this. You also sound quite racist, like most of the hexbear community. Has a métisse and french canadian who lived around the continent, that’s something I’m used too, but you people are the most ridiculous ones.

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                    2 days ago

                    Explain how I’m sounding racist? (not getting your ‘joke’ specific to France and Belgium about how people self delete isn’t racism)

                    You sound like you have a chip on your shoulder and have already demonstrated yourself to be a prolific liar so I don’t have any reason to take you seriously.

                    Waiting on the explanation on how my pointing out that your behavior (a cis guy gatekeeping who is trans or not based on your opinion of them) is transphobic is actually transphobia on my part too.