I’m gay. I’m a fat enby and I’m attracted to fat enbies because I’m gay. My username is a joke about the fact that I’m gay.
A lot of people think only a chaser or a fetishist could ever be attracted to a fat person, but that’s a fatphobic trope and it’s time to move past it.
Not all attraction to enbies or fat people is objectifying, but some of it definitely is, and your reddit “pm me your tits”-style username comes across that way. And no one scrolling lemmy is going to hear your explanation of who you are and what you mean, they’re just going to see the comment and username right in front of them.
I’m gay. I’m a fat enby and I’m attracted to fat enbies because I’m gay. My username is a joke about the fact that I’m gay.
A lot of people think only a chaser or a fetishist could ever be attracted to a fat person, but that’s a fatphobic trope and it’s time to move past it.
Not all attraction to enbies or fat people is objectifying, but some of it definitely is, and your reddit “pm me your tits”-style username comes across that way. And no one scrolling lemmy is going to hear your explanation of who you are and what you mean, they’re just going to see the comment and username right in front of them.