This is a question intended solely for the adult audience, both tagged as NSFW and with a NSFW warning in the title. I don’t see a rule prohibiting those, and I hope it’s allowed.

Not talking about rare because taboo, but ones people may not even ever think of when hearing “fetish”.

I have a major fetish for… apartments. Housing. Generally interior of buildings. It’s been born out of my socioeconomic situation and continues. I find the idea of having sex in a nice, non-claustophobic space extremely allouring. If I see a glimpse of a nice interior via a window, it’s where my thoughts immediately go. I see a nice plant in the window? I fantasize about how good the rest of the place looks like and how hot it would be to do the do in it. Nice lightning? Same thoughts. Tall windows implying high ceilings and more space? Guess what… I thought I’d appreciate living alone, but my apartment is claustrophobic, which is something I thought I wouldn’t mind, since I grew up in worse, but it affects my mental health. Fantasizing about having sex in more modern, more spacious places is not only an escapism, but actually turns me on a lot. I hate that most people don’t seem to be able to host. I would probably give a chance to someone I otherwise wouldn’t consider if they had a nice place - to picture how strong the fetish has become over time.

I’m curious about other people’s. Share away.

  • Afghaniscran@feddit.uk
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    My partners best friend was dating a guy very briefly. She called it off because on day 3 of just getting to know each other he started sending her nudes and rubbing himself with inflated balloons and videos of him humping. That guy has a balloon fetish.

    I don’t think the balloons are what killed the short lived relationship so much as the boldness of thinking she wanted those videos/pictures.

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      I’m not a fan of kink-shaming, but that is objectively funny. I choose to believe he was also into balloon-bestiality by sometimes going squiggee-fnurp-scratch-tadaa and producing balloon animals as part of the foreplay

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        Whoever he ends up with hit the jackpot. I can’t imagine an easier way to make sure someone is happy and fulfilled sexually. Just get yourself a balloon book.

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          sensually strokes a long baloon

          . >:D

          starts bending it to turn it into a baloon dog

          D:

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      This is the second bit of balloon fetish in this thread. I think we might have hit Lemmy weird fetish consensus.

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      I had an ex who knew someone like this too. He sent her videos and told her about his fetish - she was really fascinated by how strange it seemed. She even sent me a link to one of his videos. I watched about a minute and hoped out.

      He also had a thing for animal characters (like Simba from Lion King) wearing inflatable clothes.

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      What do you think is the origin story lol? Like he realized you can use them like condoms or even blow it up so you’re jizzing in an astronaut helm or something?

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    A consensual, monogamous, loving relationship, where they only do it missionary with the lights and clothes on.

    I was like “no one is that vanilla, you guys are fucking weird”

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    The weirdest fetish I’ve ever seen was knee inflation and as a furry and former deviantArt user I’ve seen some pretty weird stuff.

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    ‘Medical’ is a major fetish I see a lot but it’s not something I ever suspected would be a thing. I still don’t feel like it’s at all erotic.

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      Can you explain? What exactly about medical settings and or procedures? Or all of it?

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        “Medical” is just a whole category in fetish. People literally “play doctor”, use needles there, do gyno inspections, and more. There’s usually a corner in the clubs with one of those metal chairs and fluorescent lighting. And a bunch of metal implements and rubber gloves and hoses (Not sure what they use those for but I don’t think I want to know lol).

        Usually people play behind the screen there. But it’s a thing, almost every fetish club has this setup. But for me it puts me off as it does most people I know. It just lacks any eroticism to me. But I know some people love it!

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          That’s so weird. I see how people would get aroused by this though. Doesn’t work for me… Thankfully to be honest. Too weird for me. 😓

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            That’s the cool thing about kinks. They’re very diverse. Like people everyone is different.

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    One of my friends once admitted to have written a porn story involving some extreme version of piss play. I don’t remember all the details, but I do remember someone filling someone else’s bladder with their urine. Wild af

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    I’m an autogynephile (turned on by imagining myself as a woman). I think a fair amount of people know this kink considering the whole controversy surrounding Blanchard. Not sure how many people have it but probably not many.

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      His methodology was flawed and didn’t consider cis women when he theorized that only men can get horny imagining themselves as women. But aside from Blanchard, you keep being that sexy bish in your mind.

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      All people can get turned on by seeing themselves looking sexy, I lingerie, etc. This is especially socially acceptable for women, too! Getting dressed up in lingerie underneath whether you plan to get laid or not, you know? Or taking pics of yourself. Perhaps it could be a form of gender euphoria. So yea there’s my take on Blanchard’s theory.

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    Gotta be penectomy. Part of me still suspects it’s a bit of some form. It’s nothing like as unexpected as what you posted, (respect to houseplant fantasizing) and it makes sense as an extreme form of orgasm denial, but… y’all do be removing your dicks, huh. It was kind of the one that desensitised me early on, like not much seems that weird to me now.

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        Me too! Me toooooo!!! I spent so much time looking for those pictures, before I realized I was simply female and then spent even more time looking for vaginoplasties. I’ve seen enough now. I’m pretty certain, though I dont need to make the decision soon anyway.

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          Same. I spoke to my surgeon about salmacian/PPV hoping it would be an outright ‘no’ to make the decision easier and his response was “oh, yeah, I heard they do that on the West coast. If you give me a year to study it I would be able to perform it on you.” So now just waiting to make a decision again.

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    I’m told ice is an uncommon one. It’s hard to explain except to say it’s one of those things where none of your five (or more) senses fail to please.

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      Temperature play is fairly common. Also the 5 senses concept is outdated, theres far more than 5 senses and temperature is maybe the sixth.

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        I know, I just didn’t want to confuse people by saying something like the “eight senses”.

        Sight: The aesthetics of ice and snow

        Sound: The crinkling and dropping of ice

        Smell: The fresh smell of the Winter

        Taste: The crunchy goodness of anything ice-related

        Touch: The lack of pain of the cold

        Proprioception: The restrictions of ice

        Temperature: The cold

        Balance: The slipperiness

        Interoception: Feeling the body react to it

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          There’s even more than that. There’s a sense that’s specifically where your body parts are in relation to each other. Sense of direction is a very real thing as well. We don’t have the ability to tell if something is wet though. There’s a specific sense that some animals, like platypuses, have. We just have to guess based on information from the other senses we do have

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    I have a fetish for autism.

    I’ve developed it once I’ve noticed I only had some advantage with girls and women, who had pretty obvious neurodivergent traits, so later on in my life, I started to be attracted to it more and more.

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      Is it really a fetish or are you just neurodivergent yourself and therefore compatible with these folks?

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    Acne scars.

    I’ve yet to find someone else who finds them attractive. Not as weird as some others around here I think, but I find them really hot for some reason.

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      I don’t have a fetish for them but I think they add to a person rather than remove. I’m really tired of the negative narrative against skin texture. It makes us us.