This Fediverse stuff is great and all but I was wonder if social media is even worth it. Like the goal is to connect people but I hardly see it do that. It just is an isolating addiction. Perhaps if I quit I can spend more time enjoying myself with hobbies. What are your thoughts? Do you find that life outside of social media is better? Why do we even do this to ourselves? To an outside observer it sounds awful.
If your goal is to connect with people, than lemmy is not good platform for you. Same goes for any forum-like platform.
I think chat-style platform would be best for your - Matrix, Discrod, IRC.