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Cake day: March 27th, 2024

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  • Eh, just the general stress of existance with some teenage angst sprinkled on top, I guess.

    Grew up under the poverty line, was abused at a very young age, started working around the age of 7 to help keep food on the table, had multiple deaths in the family within a few years (one of which was the result of a horrific industrial accident - didn’t witness it, but overheard enough detail that it still haunts me to this day), spent my early teens mostly on my own due to my mom spending most of her time caring for my grandma after she broke her knee, etc.

    So yeah, the novel concept of being able to take the edge off by lighting up a smoke was pretty alluring.

    ¯\_(ツ)_/¯



  • I get that it’s not for everyone, but damn… still kinda wild to hear people outright hating the experience.

    Granted, I started smoking when I was 13. Heard it helped people feel less stressed, so when the opportunity arrived I figured why not give it a try.

    Quickly got up to a pack or two a day and loved every drag for nearly 10yrs until my future wife asked me to stop. I quit cold turkey for a few years, but missed it the whole time. Eventually wound up settling on vaping as a compromise.

    Tbh, the only part I don’t miss is the dent it left in my wallet.


  • arcayne@lemmy.todaytoSelfhosted@lemmy.worldDNS?
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    2 months ago

    My preferred way of solving this is to run a PowerDNS cluster with DNSDist and keepalived. You get all the redundancy via a single (V)IP.

    Technitium is probably more user friendly for greenhorns, though… and offers DHCP too. Beats pihole by a mile.




  • Apps: SSO via Authentik where I can, unique user/pass combo via Bitwarden where I can’t (or, more realistically, don’t want to).

    General infra: Unique RSA keys, sometimes Ed25519

    Core infra: Yubikey

    This is overkill for most, but I’m a systems engineer with a homelab, so it works well for me.

    If you’re wanting to practice good security hygeine, the bare minimum would be using unique cred pairs (or at least unique passwords) per app/service, auto-filled in-browser via a proper password manager like KeePassXC or Bitwarden.