Once you come to terms with how bad faith arguments work and why they are used then a bunch of problems in life unravel elegantly but frustratingly. It’s kinda simple. You want to prove yourself right so you sabotage anything that can prove you wrong, you seek things that can prove you right and intentionally avoid scrutiny of the validation. OP has no honest intentions and just wants to use the tricks that he thinks will influence his partner. He has demonstrated elsewhere that he doesn’t care about her, only his possession of her.
poe tho