I just graduated optometry school and I feel like I’ve lost a bit of my identity. I didn’t have much free time to focus on the things that make me happy and now I’m lacking inspiration. I can’t work until my license is approved so I’ve had days of doing nothing since May 7. It’s been great but it’s starting to get boring; I can only play so much Zelda and doom scroll so often.
So whatcha got? What do you like to do? What are some hobbies or passions everyone has? What are non-drinking related activities to do with a partner or friends?
Improving my local OSM.
Favorite time killer with friends has been gaming, we have had a semi steady group going through different games for many years.
Favorite active activity/passion has been BJJ. Still terrible at it, still can’t wait to get back on the mats and get swept again.
I think BJJ or some other form of martial arts would be a great outlet to release some pent up aggression and rage. I may look into gyms around my area after I begin working.
Have you heard of lemmy? It’s s pretty good time waster. Also, crochet, woodworking, reading, pets, duolingo, learning a fun cheaper instrument like bongos, ukulele, or cajon.
Haha no what’s that?!
I’ve spent soooo many hours on Reddit and now lemmy. It is so addicting for me and I’d like to stop being on my phone so much. I HAVE been wanting to learn Spanish. It would help in my professional life and my husband is Hispanic and his parents/extended family primarily speak it. Thanks for the reminder and all the other wonderful suggestions! I do crochet amigurumi but I burnt myself out a bit by trying to sell them.
There’s a crochet community. Might help your crojo.
For short Spanish lessons, I recommend the free podcast from Coffee Break Spanish: https://coffeebreaklanguages.com/coffeebreakspanish/
More of a passion, falconry. I’m in deep. It’s really a lifestyle, basically when making a life decision I think about how it will effect my falconry.
Here’s one of my goobers:
With friends: D&D or board/card/tabletop games. Pick a night and get together every week or whatever works for everyone. Play the same game or something different each week. Settlers of Catan and Cards Against Humanity are other games that jump to mind for me.
Generally: read, write/paint/draw/model/etc., learn to play an instrument, cook/bake, learn something new via podcast or videos. Most of these things can be done with others if you choose.
I have gotten back into cooking and meal planning some amazing meals. I used to do sourdough but my starter was neglected to the point of death. RIP. Maybe I’ll start anew! Always looking for fun and interesting topics to learn about which fuels my lemmy addiction.
One of my go-to’s are programming, i rarely play video games these days. I go for walks once in a while haha
As im writing this i have come to the realization that i am a boring person.
Pick up guitar lessons.
I actually bought an acoustic to do some self lessons on during my externship year but couldn’t commit to one thing. I guess I need some guidance on the best way to approach it. Any suggestions for YouTube channels or books to follow?
If you’re going self taught, you can’t go wrong with JustinGuitar.com. He has some great lessons and it’s all free. You can upgrade and he has paid stuff, but I’ve never done them. If you are in the right place and can swing it, take some classes. If you find the right instructor it’ll be awesome. I didn’t take lessons for years but finally sprung for them. I don’t think it’s made a difference that I can tell but my wife says I’m paying much better.
JustinGuitar is the shit for free Find a School of Rock or an instructor to on-ramp faster.
I’ll check the site out, thanks for sending it. I do have an old buddy that opened his own studio so I’ll look him up and see what his openings are like! I am a decent self learner but there is always things you can learn better with proper instructions!
Art - for me, usually painting. It sucks time away like no one’s business. You look at the clock and hours have gone by.
I like embroidery, baking and cooking, exercising, and jigsaw puzzles. I just started my biggest one ever – 5000 pieces. It takes up about half of our living room floor, but we don’t have a table big enough.
My husband and I play Scrabble together, and have for the past 19 years. I even made our wedding cake topper to be two people playing Scrabble. We also have a notebook that keeps up with our scores, and unfortunately it notes that I’ve been on a losing streak lately!
As a family, with our 14yo, they like to go birding (it’s not my thing), or we play cards or board games.
Please consider posting pictures of your 5000 piece puzzle on the Lemmy Jigsaw Puzzles community. The biggest jigsaw puzzle we did was 2000, I don’t think we could do anything bigger than that.
Solving Rubik’s cubes ! There is always more to learn and 100s of different shapes and sizes. I have a pretty large collection myself
I think I enjoy the feeling of committing algo to muscle memory more than I do actually developing them. Whenever I get my hands on a new form factor I’m always frustrated by the process of getting used to the new mechanisms. For me it’s about the flow state. Does any of this resonate with you?
For me I really enjoy wrapping my head around a new shape mod . But also enjoy learning new algorithms but I don’t practice as much as I used to so I’m starting to forget some .
I like taking classes to learn new hobbies. I took a woodworking class last year and made a bench and coffee table. This year I took a watercolor class. Didn’t keep up with the woodworking because I don’t have a shop, but I’ve been watercoloring a TON since the class ended and I just love it. There’s lots of free lessons for all levels on YouTube
If there’s a makerspace in your area, they might have a woodworking workshop.
I have considered woodworking but I also don’t really have space to do it. I would love to take a class for it to learn some basics to go on! Watercolor could be interesting. I’m an absolutely terrible drawer and it’s discouraged me in the past.
My watercolor teacher encouraged us to not let our drawing/sketching abilities get in the way of painting. He gave us graphite paper which can be used to trace. I use that piece of graphite paper more often than not. Sometimes I’m in the mood to sketch something out but mostly I just want to get to painting right away, without sketching and erasing an image a thousand times until I’m happy with it
I enjoy building LEGO sets. Unfortunately, I can’t afford too many and don’t have space for large ones. Instead, I buy minifigures, use BrickLink Studio to design “habitats” for them, and then buy the pieces to build these sets.
My husband loves LEGOs and has started buying the Mould King brand on Amazon. He says they’re just as good but are a fraction of the price.
I’ll admit that I’m a “LEGO snob” in that I only buy actual LEGO bricks. (I don’t look down on people who buy other brands, though. I’m not that kind of “snob.”) What I do to reduce costs is order used bricks from BrickLink. Some of the bricks look like new. Others have tiny scratches or are very slightly discolored, but are good enough that you wouldn’t notice in the build unless you really looked at them brick by brick.
Are you married to LEGO for nostalgia’s sake? We all have preferences to brands, myself included. I love that you’re also “recycling” by buying previously used sets. That’s amazing, I had no idea that existed and I’m going to look into it!
It’s more of a brand preference than anything else. That and when I design sets with BrickLink Studio, it uses LEGO parts and names. Also, I’ll go to Rebrickable to look up alternative builds for sets (or custom builds) and those use LEGO also. It’s just easier to stick with LEGO with all that.
Well, you mentioned Zelda so gaming’s accounted for. I also do some writing. I started out doing it in my head/fanfiction-y and eventually published a couple chapters with more to follow eventually. After simmering things around enough, I got some stories that are good/unique enough to begin writing novels about so I also work on those in my spare time. (Plus a few stories that’d work better in webcomic or GB Studio video game format, but I haven’t started practical work on either yet.)
Aside from that, I dabble in Linux/computers and such.
I do have a gaming laptop but I suspect the battery is spicy so it’s currently in exile. Otherwise I have been wanting to dabble a bit in computer stuff and an old laptop would’ve been the perfect toy to fuck around and find out on.
I spin yarn! I have a normal spinning wheel and a small electric, but I prefer spindles. I’ve just recently worked up the guts to finally touch some of my more luxurious fiber. It’s really nice because I can sit down and watch a movie or listen to podcasts and not have to pay attention to my hands and if I get tired of sitting, I can easily walk around with it. I haven’t actually knitted (or crocheted) with any of the yarn I’ve made, but I swear I will, just as soon as I find the perfect pattern.
It’s not an expensive hobby to get into either. You can buy a cheap Turkish spindle and some decent wool for under $30 USD or you can even make a drop spindle with a CD and a dowel.
Video games and music are the two things that I usually go back to to waste time or do stuff with. Mostly on the PC because it can handle playing or making both without issue. Edit: well, learning to make one and practicing the other more to start making stuff that isn’t just something that rots in the hard drive. probably should have worded it differently lol
